“A powerful individual is one who is
comfortable with his body”
Sex is probably the most tabooed subject in our
society. 90% of men and women are extremely shy to talk about it. As a sexual
health counsellor at Mind Mantra Wellness Clinic, I have met thousands individuals
(both men and women) who are going through extreme unhappiness because they
haven’t been able to accept, express and enjoy their sexual desires.
The
following are essential medical facts that every man and woman in search of
productive and stimulating sexual life, should be aware regarding the female
sexual health:
1. Women are more open
to discuss about sex with their friends, than men. – Unfortunately as most of
their friends also harbour half knowledge about it, this tends to propagate myths.
2. A Higher number of
women believe that sex is unholy. – If it was unholy, why would god let your
body produce sex hormones which trigger desire and want.
3. A woman takes between
10-12min to reach an orgasm – While a man take 3-5min. (what they show in porn
movies is staged!!!)
4. 40% women accept to
have or regularly masturbate. – The rest 60% suppress their desires. – It’s
important to note that Continuous suppression of sexual desires, re-programs
the body to think that sexual hormones are not required, henceforth decreasing the
thoughts and want for sex in life.
5. When women have an
orgasm, their body secrete enormous amounts of oxytocin, also called “the
bonding hormone”. This hormone is responsible for causing their brain to feel
extremely attached to their partner. Hence sex carries an emotional
significance to it. Men don’t have the
same, so sex is more of an exercise for them.
6. 84% women report to
have sex simple to “keep the peace” or “Keep the husband happy” at home.
7. More than 60% Indian woman
have never experienced a complete pleasurable orgasm in their life.- Either they
have never been thought the right way of having sex or their husbands are just
focused onto intercourse. Remember sex is an exercise that’s much more than
simple intercourse.
8. Only 30% women reach
orgasm during intercourse, compared to 75% men.
9. 60% women have faked
an orgasm at some point of time in their lives.
10. 9 out of 10 sexually active women use a
contraceptive method without consulting a professional. They mostly rely on friends
and some elder family member to give them the information. – such information
is 80% right, 20% wrong.
11.
For a woman to have
an orgasm during sex, her amygdala of center for excessive thought generation
must be turned off. Hence a woman who is extremely anxious, fearful, or spends
too much time thinking might never reach an orgasm. – This is the major
reason why most woman never achieve an orgasm and long for productive, fruitful
and efficient sexual life.
12. Upto 10% women have
the need to of same-sex or “homosexual” attraction. This is much lower compared
to upto 15-20% of males who feel the need for same.
13. Upto 19% of women
think about sex on a daily basis. – this category is dominated by either women
with depression due to lack of complete sexual satisfaction by husband, woman
with extremely high sexual desires due to medical problems like hypomania, erotomania or nymphomania and woman with
extremely high need to be centre of attraction.
14. 70% women would
rather eat chocolate than have sex. – This reflects the poor quality of sexual
life they are subjected to.
15. In India Among
contraceptives – The Pill is the most popular, followed by male condom, female
condom and tubal sterilization.
16. After 2nd
year of marriage, most women report to have sex only a handful number of times.
– Among married woman, upto 10% have never had sex in the past year. About 30%
have had it less than 15 times in the year.
17. Most women agree that
their most satisfying sexual experiences happen when they feel connected to
someone, rather than solely based on physical satisfaction.
18. Working women within
the higher income bracket are more prone to seek and be involved with multiple
sexual partners – as their brain utilises sex as stress reliever for them.
19. Women with high “inferiority
complex” and extremely high dependency needs are most liable to be subjected to
perversions. Most common perversions include forced sexual encounters with
family members and being accomplice of their husbands unnatural sexual
practices.
20. The break of trust by
a boyfriend or husband can trigger a woman to utilize sex as an instrument for personal,
physical and professional self-satisfaction.
If you have any sexual health related problem, don't hesitate, contact me immediately... ALL COMMUNICATIONS ARE KEPT SECRET.
Dr.hemant Mittal
Neuro-Behavioural Consultant, Sexual Health and Wellness Expert
(MBBS, PG.DPM, M.D.(Mind Mantra Wellness Concepts - Mumbai))
Website - www.mindmantra.in
Email - eksoch@gmail.com
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Neuro-Behavioural Consultant, Sexual Health and Wellness Expert
(MBBS, PG.DPM, M.D.(Mind Mantra Wellness Concepts - Mumbai))
Website - www.mindmantra.in
Email - eksoch@gmail.com
WELLNESS CLINIC Address- 15, shreeji plaza, Next to Seawood Station (east), Navi Mumbai, Mumbai (India)
Facebook - http://www.facebook.com/home.php#!/mindmantra.in
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